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Wednesday, October 3, 2012
One of the most profound things I learned about Annabelle when I visited her in August was that she does not know how to play. I know that sounds crazy. I didn't think it was possible for child to not know how to play. It's suppose to be basic instinct for child...right? Turn them loose and they go crazy or make you crazy.
When I handed her a toy she would drop it. Stare at it. Toss it away. Or not even acknowledge the toy at all. She did love to carry soft toys around but carry them was all she did.
I placed her in the ball pit in the video below and she just sat there.
Any other child would of been in "play heaven".
Throwing balls. Climbing the slide. Running. Screaming with joy.
But Annabelle sat there...for only a few minutes then wanted to get out. I tried to show her how to play. I placed balls in her hand and used her hand to throw them. She laughed a couple times but had no inclination to do it herself.
I climbed the slide and slid down. She thought it was hysterical but never tried to follow me.
Her lack of play skills has nothing to do with her abilities. Within the short week I spent with her I realized that if she were born into our family she would of been what is considered "slow" or maybe normal. She's all there mentally but she was never given any kind of opportunity to grow. Until now that is.
On the last day of my visit with her, when they were about to take her from me. As I was saying goodbye with tears streaming down my face, I will never forget the look on her face as they took her hand and walked her back into that dreaded place. She looked back at me, her face as sad as mine with an expression that told me she wanted to stay with her mommy and that she didn't understand why I was leaving.
We received our official approval from the United States yesterday. Praise God!
We are now only waiting for Annabelle's country. Please continue to pray.
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We are hoping to raise $4500 to complete our adoption.
We are also hoping to go way over $4500...why?
All funds over $4500 will be donated to Annabelle's (Makayla's) orphanage.
As of right now the funds will be used for a needed van but that could change. In one way or another any funds over our goal will be used to benefit the orphanage depending on their needs.
Shelley Bedford from Only1mom.com is looking over this to make sure all funds will reach the orphanage.
Shelley Bedford from Only1mom.com is looking over this to make sure all funds will reach the orphanage.
Please, please help spread the word.
PRIZES:
ONE PERSON
Will have their choice between one of the following tablets:
One Brand New Apple iPad 3 (16GB) + WIFI
Your choice of black or white.
Your choice of black or white.
$499.00
OR
One Brand New Samsung Galaxy Note 10.1 (16 GB) WIFI
$499.99
NOTE: The device of the winners choice will be shipped directly to the winner from the manufacturer's website (Apple/Samsung). As of right now there are no delay's in shipments but that could change at any time. Please understand this ahead of time. We will do all we can to make sure the winner receives their device promptly.
FOUR PEOPLE
will choose ONE $25.00 Gift Card
of their choice from the cards listed below.
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The fundraiser will run from
October 1st through October 12th.
Please spread word of this fundraiser. We really need help.
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FOR EVERY $5.00 DONATION YOU WILL RECEIVE 1 ENTRY.
$10.00 = 2 entries
$20.00 = 4 entries
$30.00 = 6 entries
$40.00 = 8 entries
$50.00 = 10 entries
$60.00 = 12 entries
$70.00 = 14 entries
$80.00 = 16 entries
$90.00 = 18 entries
$100.00 = 20 entries
$150.00 = 30 entries
October 1st through October 12th.
Each entry will be assigned a number.
We will then hold the drawing on random.org using their free number generator October 13th and announce who won by 12:00pm EST the same day.Please spread word of this fundraiser. We really need help.
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FOR EVERY $5.00 DONATION YOU WILL RECEIVE 1 ENTRY.
$10.00 = 2 entries
$20.00 = 4 entries
$30.00 = 6 entries
$40.00 = 8 entries
$50.00 = 10 entries
$60.00 = 12 entries
$70.00 = 14 entries
$80.00 = 16 entries
$90.00 = 18 entries
$100.00 = 20 entries
$150.00 = 30 entries
and so on...
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Tuesday, October 2, 2012
I could try and tell you the story of the children in my daughter's orphanage myself
but a friend of mine has told it in perfect words on her own blog.
Please follow the link to read what children are enduring in
Eastern European orphanages and how adoption is changing their lives.
but a friend of mine has told it in perfect words on her own blog.
Please follow the link to read what children are enduring in
Eastern European orphanages and how adoption is changing their lives.
If it doesn't break you, I truly don't know what will.
There are children suffering and they need your help.
We are adopting from the same orphanage in the story.
We are adopting from the same orphanage in the story.
I was told that our Annabelle/Makayla (pictured above with me) used to lay in a crib all day.
Some how my little girl got herself up and started walking when she was 8 years old.
By herself, she defied many odds...just imagine how she is going to flourish in a family.
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Annabelle. The one born in our hearts.
Kandice. Our artistic one.
Amanda. Our helpful one.
Keegan. Our curious one.
Jacob. Our sensitive one.
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